The most common mistakes men do when they search for a wife in Russia:

1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are from women's magazine attract their attention. It is interesting but 80 percent of letters are received by 20 percent of women. But they are not more beautiful, they are not more interesting than others. They have just better pictures than others.

Men do not pay attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if they have beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to sleep with them.

Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian ledies, they were completely breathtaking in their pictures , but when he came to meet them they were just average, not superordinary not like those models on the podiums.

He was walking along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many beautiful Russian girls walking along the street, they were not in hurry, talked with their friends, lauphed a lot. Why then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the pictures, but were tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can happen also. If a girl exausts herself with work (she has, for example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartmnet and it is very expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and you can't imagine how she changes after rest or after she does not need to work so hard. By accident, all the Russian girls that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full working day (in one case after a night shift). And he saw in the street Russian girls who had holidays or were students and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they had boyfriends who cared for them. That's where from such a difference!

About 50 percent of men who register on the site prefer to sign on and then wait for Russian Beautiful Girls to write to them. Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances to find their love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are active themselves, who search themselves and who answer also women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has much higher chances, especially if to take into account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the communication, they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active side.

But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some men who need 10 times (or something like that) of confirmation that this particular woman wants to communicate with them. They send woman a wink, receive a letter or a wink in return, then send her a postcard, receive something, then wink, wink, wink, after 6 such "signs of attention" most woman begin to get tired from this and stop answering. Then they continue to send these signs to the women of his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them.

Why do women register to the agencies? Why are they looking for a husband abroad?

Mostly the reason for Russian girls to register to the sites is to have more chances to find their life partner.
I think, it shows that a girl is really serious about this when she registers to several dating sites. (she can't know beforehand what site is good, what is not. ) . She does not just wait, but she is actively searching by the means that are availabe to her.

For these women it does not matter if they will marry a Russian man or a Western, they just look for love.

It is easy to find a boyfriend in Russia, it is diffiuclt to find a husband there.

For many women after 30 it is a problem. They can want to have a child, they want stability that marriage here gives, but men prefer to live together but not connect themselves by conjugal ties. Many men do not want to have children, especially the second child. It is an expensive pleasure now in Russia and the government helps families with children very little.